To all my fellow readers I wish to say thank you for reading my blogs. I write many but they don't always get posted.
Love as we all know it keeps the world moving. Usually 2 people in love produce children that allows things to keep going. Sometimes it happens when the persons involved are not really in love, but just in lust and therefore it is doomed to end one day.
True love demands respect, respect for oneself first and then respect for the other. To have respect you must care, to care you must trust and without trust there is nothing. You have to trust in yourself and have trust in your partner. You have to know deep down that the love you both share will always grow because you are willing to work at it. Does that mean there will not be days when you wish to fight with each other? No, most certainly not, because this is what makes love grow even stronger. With some conflict, you find solutions, you compromise, you do things that make yourself better in some way. To have a healthy loving relationship you need to be able to accept decisions that may not always allow you to win, but that allow you to be better. You compromise without holding a grudge, you willingly accept things that allow you both to get past the conflict and make your love grow even more.
Love is like a flower or vegetable garden and always needs nurturing, it needs constant attention and it needs watering so that it can flourish and grow. Without constant care it will wilt and blow away. Always be willing to communicate because even the smaller issues can become insurmountable if you leave them to fester.
We all need someone in our lives to love be in man or woman. Love comes from being comfortable with each other. That can happen from long distances or it can happen when close together. Many of us here are looking for love to begin via long distance and want it to grow into something we all look for, being together forever. To do that we all have to be honest with each other, be true to yourself and be willing to do whatever is required to build the life we are hoping to find. Ladies, if you are wanting to relocate to North America or any other country around our world, you need to work with the man of your dreams to make that happen. Learn his language, customs of his country, laws of his land and be willing to share your contact information so you can really get to know each other more. Life will not be easy for you if and when you do decide to move and it may take you several years before you are able to work, drive and do other things you now take for granted. If you are really looking for love, then decide that you have to work to make it real and work even harder to keep it growing. You and your mate have to be willing to work together to make love grow every day.
Good luck to you all who read this.