You see how it was in the past: a man could be compared to a real knight. He was not afraid to show off and get the girl they liked. And, if the girl rejected initially, the man was only provoked to do more, and especially did not discourage him from continuing to care for the lady of his heart.
Men were not afraid to be romantics. They did not consider this unacceptable for a real man. They gave flowers, took women to the movies, to dances. Just a walk and a casual conversation in the mall, gave them a lot of fun.

Women felt really desired and needed. They were not afraid to seem fragile or weak. After all, there is always a strong man nearby who can save her from any trouble.

What happened to those men who can turn mountains for the sake of their beloved woman? Why did men stop trying to get women?

What is happening now? Men are so confident that they are unique and, literally, an endangered species, that they no longer consider it necessary to captivate girls. If he decided to come to you, and you agreed to give him the phone number, then the maximum he will do next is to call and invite on a date. And, it may happen that if after the first date, you do not find yourself in his bed, then interest in you will be lost.

He simply does not consider it necessary to waste his energy in order to get you. And, especially since he is sure that if not you, then the other will immediately agree to all of his conditions and he will not have to turn out on the wrong side for the sake of a woman.

What is the reason? Why did men stop trying to get women? The reason may be that before men were brought up in a different way. Men have known from the very childhood that a woman needs to be sought after if she wants you to be with her. Previously, to seek a woman, was considered an ordinary occupation, even, it can be said, characteristic of any man.

Maybe we, women, are to blame for the fact that a man does not seek and does not care for a woman. Not proper upbringing, as an example. Now the values that our grandparents honored were practically forgotten. Now a man and a woman are equal in their rights.

The fault lies with us, women are too active lately. For us no longer a problem, go to the man you like, ask for his phone number, invite him on a date. We really are not weak, we are ready and pay fror the dinner in the restaurant if a man is really attractive and has a beautiful heart. We send him text messages, in which we will express all our feelings and a load of compliments. Take in your hands a joint future. We plan and realize all our dreams and dreams.

Now you will not be surprised by such families, where the money is earned by a woman, and the man works as a housewife. And, most men are satisfied with this state of affairs. And it's hard not to agree with them, men now do not have to bother themselves with long courtship. Ideally, even if he starts a family, the reins of government can be shifted to his woman.

We have allowed the men to behave this way, so it is in our power to fix this. Simply, if something does not suit you, change everything. A man behaves with a woman exactly as a woman allows him to do so.

Are there real men who can still work for women?

Eugenia