After 55 years, people accumulate a huge baggage of knowledge, life situations and experience. This does not mean that they cannot or should not change, but it is important to remember: changes should be conscious and comfortable. If a partner requires radical transformations, perhaps this is not the person with whom it is worth building a relationship.
The ability to adapt is a sign of wisdom, not weakness. However, it is important to distinguish between flexibility and concessions that contradict one's own values. Successful relationships are built on mutual respect and acceptance, and not on one partner completely adapting to the other
If a person wants to change, that is great. But motivation should come from within, and not be the result of external pressure. If you want to learn something new, improve your physical shape or change your lifestyle, let it be your choice, not the demand of another person.
Self-respect is the basis of healthy relationships. When a person values ​​and accepts themselves, they attract partners who do the same. Therefore, the question is not whether it is worth changing yourself, but whether these changes will bring you joy and harmony.
Relationships at any age are a great opportunity for new discoveries, joint growth and happiness. But they should not become the reason for losing your own essence. It is worth changing only when it brings pleasure and helps you feel better, regardless of whether there is a partner in your life. After all, true love is acceptance and mutual support, not demands and compromises against yourself.