1. Choose the right moment and setting 🕰️

The conversation should not be rushed or emotional. It is better to choose a calm environment when the child has time to process the information and ask questions.

2. Speak honestly, but without unnecessary details 💬

The child does not need adult showdowns. It is enough to say that mom and dad have decided to live separately, but both still love him. For example:
"Mom and dad will no longer live together, but we will both always be there for you."

3. Consider the child's age 👶👦👩

It is important to explain to little ones (under 5) in simple words: "Mom and Dad now live separately, but you are still loved."

You can tell children aged 6-10 that the parents decided to separate, but it is not because of the child, and the child can still communicate with both.

Teenagers already understand more, so it is important for them to know that divorce is not the end of the family, but a new format of relationships.

4. Emphasize that the child is not to blame ⚖️

Children often feel guilty for their parents' divorce. Repeat: "It is not your fault, it is the decision of adults."

5. Explain what will change and what will remain the same 🔄

It is important for the child to know how his life will now be arranged: where he will live, when he will see the second parent. Emphasize that the parents' love for him remains unchanged.

6. Let your child express emotions 😢😊

Sadness, fear, anger are normal. Give your child the opportunity to talk about their feelings and be there to support them.

7. Keep promises and create stability 🏡

If you promised that your child will see their parent on a certain day, do it. Stability will help them feel safe.

Conclusion

Divorce is a difficult stage, but the right approach will help your child adapt. The main thing is love, honesty, and support. ❤️