As you may have suspected eventually the human race will reduce everything to a technology. Well today is day the human start to reduce love and relationships to a technology. I know some of you may be sorry for the loss of pain, sorrow, and heartache. I personally am glad to see it go. We may have been born with the instincts for love and relationship, but we have a problem in that our intelligence gets in the way. The solution is to learn how to do what our instinct used to tell us how to do. Refusal to do so is like refusing to ride in a car because you enjoy walking.
In this very brief article I can only reference other written material, but the fact is that we live literately on opposite sides of the world and in our unique culture. Your ability to access this material may be a problem because I understand from Russia and Ukraine you cannot access America website. My hope is that after you gain access to American websites you will be able to both purchase and perhaps download the required information. The additional problem is it is written in English for a male reader. For many of you reading this blog this problem is like me reading Russian text for content. I would find this task very difficult.
My approach will be to list the source material and then give a brief discussion of it’s content.
Title_______________________________________Author____________Source
How To Be A 3% Man_________________________Corey Wayne_______Amazon

Attract And Keep Her__________________________Jim Wolfe__________Note 1
Social Savant: Learn The Secrets of Social
Dynamics & Female Psychology to
Attract Women & Transform Into Your
Authentic Self_______________________________Joshua Hudson______Amazon

How To Make Anyone Fall in Love with You_________Leil Lowndes_______Amazon


Note 1 is that this book was obtained as part of a program sold by the author for about $47. If you get access to American websites google him and this will point the way.

The basic idea is that our instincts controlling our behavior were developed when we lived in caves and lived only long enough to reproduce and typically died before we reached the age of 30. During our evolution no technology existed. This statement is reasonable when you remember all existing technology is only several thousand years old. So no farming, only hunter gathers in very small group of less than 20 people.

The selection process of a man was is she healthy enough to produce health children. If the answer is yes, he will accept her as a mate. For a woman it is much more complex. Does he have the character to stay around and protect me and my children. Is he a good enough hunter to do that.

A man can assume role of lover or provider. Lover has many resources but may not stick around, while to provider has limited resource but will stick around.

A woman can be consider Madonna or whore. The Madonna keep herself pure and has sex only with her mate while the whore has sex with everyone. So for a woman will works very hard to maintain her image as a Madonna. For her, her image and social approval is everything.

The most common mistake men make is to over pursue. The woman must always feel free and if she does not feel free, she runs away. Typically men pursue her so much that in effect they chase her away.

Right now there is an industry of individuals claiming expertise in dating and pickup. Pickup is defined as the process of a guy approaching a girl stranger and attempting create a relationship for dating and hopefully sex. The reason pickup is emphasized is because it is relatively easy to learn. Within this industry there are guys who emphasize the total relationship. That is through marriage, raising children, etc. The need to develop this separate branch became obvious when it was observed that within the industry many of the dating and pickup instructors lacked the skill necessary to maintain a relationship. Their typical behavior was to pick up a woman, use her for sex and then discard her. They then maintained their supply by simple repeating the process.

The dating and pickup industry exist in USA, Australia, Canada, Europe. I do not know if it exist in Russia or Ukraine. By you looking for the material you will creates the market, so if it does not exist there now it soon will.

To be more effective in husband or wife hunter I suggest you read this type of material. It is out there and available for study.