It is so hard to guess what guides a man to his beloved one. So through personal Expierience I must say that it is no different than the same emotion that guides a women to a man, as their beloved one. As a performing artist I met more people by the time I was 16, then most people meet in a lifetime. I believe that for men and women the only real thing that seperates us is our gender. For me as a Mature adult, I still feel like a child at times but as far as Physical attraction, it is a must for both the bride and the groom. For me intelligence in my bride is a must. This can be an important form of communication that creates a bond that will last forever. The foundation for a strong Marriage is not purely Physical. Communication is a descriptive form of art that can create a vizual image (within your mind) that keeps your loved ones close to you. Even from thousands of miles away...!!!