Hi. I'm that woman who scans you for half a minute, and you still think you're looking at me. Surprise! 😉
Men, let's be honest: do you think a woman looks at your face, your abs, or the thickness of your wallet first? Ha. No. Not really. It's a little deeper and... trickier. In the first 30 seconds, a woman sucks in so much information about you that you don't even know about yourself. Yes, we are like Sherlock Holmes, only in a skirt and lipstick 💄🕵️‍♀️
Here's what we really notice:

1. POSTURE AND GAIT 🧍‍♂️
You haven't even approached us yet, and we've already taken notes. And if you walk like you have TNT in your pocket and it could detonate... well, you get the idea. A straight back, confident movements - this instantly says how you feel in this world. Even if you're nervous - keep your posture. It's sexy. Very.

2. LOOK 😎
Are you looking at us like a man or like a schoolboy who's just entered Victoria's Secret for the first time? Confident, a little daring, but respectful - that's the look that gives you goosebumps. Slippery, scared or "reading the menu" - no thanks.

3. SHOES 👞👟
Yes, yes, that's right. Shoes are a direct prediction of the future. Dirty, beat-up sneakers - you're either a teenager or live with your mom. Stylish, clean shoes? Hello, potential husband. Or at least a nice evening.

4. SMELL 👃✨
We can pretend not to notice... but in fact we do notice. If you smell like men's perfume that says "I know what I want" - you're already one step ahead. And if you smell like sweat, cigarettes and yesterday's shawarma... 🫠

5. CONFIDENCE LEVEL 💯
It can be read instantly. It's not about the volume of your voice or showing off - it's about how you hold yourself. Confidence is when you're not afraid to be yourself. Even if you're nervous, be honest about it. Sincerity > showiness.

6. SMILE 😁
Yes, even the most brutal men. A genuine smile is a signal that you're open, alive, and perhaps not going to eat us for dinner. And this, oddly enough, is a big plus.

7. HOW YOU LOOK AT OTHERS 👀
If you manage to look at the waitress's butt on the first date, consider yourself already lost. We notice how you look at other women, how you communicate with the staff, how you behave in your surroundings. This immediately shows: are you a hunter, a gentleman, or just a chatterbox.

RESULT? 🎯
You may not be a Calvin Klein model, you may not even know what oxfords are — but if you carry yourself confidently, are clean, smell nice and know how to look into the eyes — you already have a golden ticket. 🎫
Remember: we don’t just notice you — we feel your energy. And it’s not in words, but in little things.
So next time you walk into a room, just remember: THE FIRST 30 SECONDS ARE NOT AN INTERVIEW, IT’S A CASTING. And you can pass it. If you know what we’re really looking at. 😉
Maria❤️