I'm not writing to you to lecture you — you're already on the level: charisma, style, confidence. But even the coolest guys' first dates sometimes go to hell 🚀
And it seems like everything is as it should be: you're in shape, you smell expensive, you speak confidently... and then — silence. 🫥 Why? I'll break it down for you now.

1. THE "I'M IN A MOVIE ABOUT MYSELF" SYNDROME 🎬
You sat down and started doing your stand-up: "I'm in business, I'm in Dubai, I'm in crypto, I'm a rare male." And now she's been drinking wine for 30 minutes and listening to you talk to yourself 🥴
👉 What to do? Brother, turn on your ears. Don't just nod, really listen, ask, engage. She's not your shadow, but a full-fledged character of this evening 💃

2. CARE THAT SMELLS OF CONTROL 🧠
"You won't eat this", "I'll order for you", "why do you need this cocktail?" - doesn't sound like care, but like an FSB interrogation 😬And you seemed to want the best, but she feels like a girl under surveillance.
👉 What to do? Caring is cool. Controlling is not so much. Be a support, not a supervisor.

3. CONFIDENCE ON STEROIDS 💪😎
You come and immediately in character: alpha, dominant, tiger in a silk shirt. You close your eyes, touch her too early, sit like a boss.
And she's like: "Where, actually, is the person?.." 🤨
👉 What to do? Confidence 🔥. But too much is already a performance. It's better to be a real man than a cartoon character from TikTok.

4. DATE = INTERVIEW? 🤯
You bombard her with questions non-stop: "Where do you work? Do you want kids? How are things with your exes?"
Okay, Inspector Columbo, but where is the ease, where is the flirting, where is the live communication? 😅
👉 What to do? Don't forget: this is not a questionnaire, but a meeting of two people. Relax. Stories, emotions, humor - that's what creates a connection ❤️

5. YOU'RE IN A ROLE, NOT IN REALITY 🔮
You came not as you, but as an image: Mr. Ideal. A scripted smile, phrases from a TV series, even gestures - as if you rehearsed in front of a mirror 🪞
But women sense falsehood like dogs sense their nose - and you're no longer interesting to her.
👉 What to do? Take off your mask. Show yourself. Even with an awkward joke, even if not perfect - but for real. This is more captivating than a glossy image ✨

AND IN CONCLUSION 👇
If you read this and thought: "Damn, it happens" - you're a handsome man. Because strong is not the one who is always right. And the one who can hear, change and remain himself 🙌
On the first date, one thing is important: don't be a superhero, be real. And she will feel it ❤️‍🔥
Good luck, tiger. Wait for the second date - it will happen 🔥

Natalia😘