Hey, you. Yes, YOU the man reading this. I want to tell you one thing that maybe no one has ever said to you so directly.

Do you think she was always like this? Soft. Cozy. Caring. Reserved. Always in touch, always there for you. Too patient. The kind that forgives. Cooks. Understands. Works hard. Forgets the last time she slept normally 😴. Or the last time she just sat, unhurried, in silence — without feeling guilty.

No, she wasn’t like that. She became like that. For you. For the kids. For “everyone.”

She wasn’t born with this list of “shoulds” 📋. She wrote it herself. Sometimes - with your easy submission. Sometimes - because the world whispers to women from childhood: be good, take care, give, give in, don't ask for much, don't be angry - you won't be liked 🙄.

And what do we get? A woman who has forgotten herself - and you lose her along with her.

YOU LOSE THE ONE YOU FELL IN LOVE 💔
The daring, smart, bright one, with dreams and fire in her eyes 🔥. She's long gone. There is functionality. Service. Autopilot 🤖.

But you didn't fall in love with the laundry, or the nanny, or the permanent cook. You fell in love with the fire, not the stove with the eternal "warming up of dinner" 🍲.

You may not have noticed it yourself. How she started to shift to the second, third, fifteenth plan. How she gave up her career, rest, friends, sports, sleep, sex, freedom... All for the sake of "peace in the house" 🕊️. For the sake of comfort. Often - yours.

Do you know what the catch is?

🧨 When she leaves, you begin to remember who she was. And she - who she is.

You begin to say: "You've changed" 🤷‍♂️. And she only for the first time in many years - remembers her real self. Not a wife. Not a mother. Not a function. BUT A WOMAN 💃. With desires, boundaries, a voice.

DO YOU WANT TO BE WITH HER - OR WITH HER SHADOW?
If you want to be with a living, real, bright woman - start seeing her now, and not when she is already in a taxi on the way to a new life 🚖.

Notice when she's tired. When she wants, but keeps quiet. When she gives too much and says "everything's fine" - but inside everything is already burning.

Because every time she pauses herself for the sake of others - she loses a piece of herself 🫀. And with it - a piece of what connects you.

And at some point you will wake up next to not her - but with emptiness. With an empty house. With empty eyes.

And all because you are used to the fact that she will always be. Will always understand. Will wait. Will forgive.

And she - finally realized that her life is too valuable to always be for someone else, and not herself 💎.

If you are hooked - good. It means that not all is lost.

Because while you are reading this - you have a chance.

Not for a relationship.
To meet a real woman. With her. With yourself. With life. 🌪️❤️

Nastya🤗