You are people too, right? Yes, you are strong 💪, independent, successful 🏆, with a confidence that literally glows in your posture. But underneath all that outer strength lies fragility 🕊️. Do you know what happens when you hide behind that body armor? It doesn’t make you less vulnerable — on the contrary, it makes your path harder 🛤️. It turns your personal pain into a dark place where there is no light 🌑 and no way out. 🚪

I understand where this is coming from. You’ve been told since childhood that men don’t cry 😢, that they don’t express emotions, that a “real man” should always be on top ⛰️. And in a way, of course, you’re right. You shouldn’t be forever burdened with weakness, you should be a support 💪, a protection 🛡️, that very rock that can be touched when asking for help. But here's the thing: by hiding your vulnerability, you're actually hiding one of the most valuable parts of your personality - the ability to be honest with yourself and with others 💖.

Let's be honest: real strength is not in being impenetrable, but in allowing yourself to be vulnerable 💔. Strength is the ability to acknowledge your fears 😨, not to fence yourself off from them, not to pretend that they don't exist. And, you know, for us women, this is like air 🌬️. We see through this facade, and we certainly don't need you to always be "unreachable" 💫. We want to see you as real people with feelings 💕, with experiences 😥. We want to be with you not only in the moment of triumph 🏅, but also when you fall ⬇️ and rise ⬆️, when not everything is smooth, when your soul hurts 😞. It is important for us to know that we can be there for you in such moments. And not to fix everything or “save” you 🦸‍♀️ — but to support you. Just to be there 🤗.

Why do you think we women are so often disappointed 😕? It is not because of your strength, but because you often do not give us the opportunity to be with you truly ❤️. You hide your vulnerability so carefully that you leave no room for real intimacy 🤝. We do not want to idealize you or put you on a pedestal 🏰. We want to see you as you are, with all your imperfections, with mistakes ❌, with worries 💔, with questions 🤔. This is real trust 🤍.

Don't be afraid to be vulnerable 💔. Not only does it open the way to deeper relationships, it also makes you even stronger 💪. The strength that comes from accepting your weaknesses 💭, from accepting that you are not perfect, is much more valuable than the one that hides everything inside 🏋️. Admit that you have moments when you are scared 😱, when you are hurt 😢, when you need a shoulder 🧑‍🤝‍🧑. And that's okay. It won't make you worse 🚫. It will make you more human 🌟.

Dear men, allow yourself to be not only heroes 🦸‍♂️, but also people 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦. Allow yourself to be vulnerable, because there is real strength in that 💪. It is much more interesting and important for us women to be with someone who can open up 👐, who can trust 🤝, who can show their soul 💖. And, you know, we will love you for it 💘. Always. ❤️

Kristina🥰