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We are too afraid to admit first (and here's how you can help us make our decide)😉
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Hi 🙂 I'm one of those women who fell in love, kept quiet, fantasized... and didn't say anything. Yes, yes, we are also afraid to make the first move. Not because we don't feel it - on the contrary. It's just that sometimes the fear of being rejected is stronger than the desire to be close 💔

I know you often think: "If she likes me, she'll somehow let me know." And we do! Only... not always in the way you imagine 😅 We look a little longer than necessary 👀 We write a "random" hello. We laugh at your jokes, even if they are... well, so-so 😄 This is our way of hinting: "I like you" - but from a safe distance.

But the truth is,
we are also afraid of rejection. Afraid of seeming clingy, "too interested" or — it's scary to even say — weak. We were taught from childhood: you are a princess, you should be pursued. And we just want to be loved 💫

🧡 HOW YOU CAN HELP US:
1. Be clear
If you write every day, like stories, ask how our day is — that's sweet! But we still wonder: are you just being polite or...? 😅 Don't be afraid to clarify a little: "I'm interested in you." Even this is already a signal.

2. Create a warm space
When we open up, don't joke back. If I write: "I missed you" — it's not just a phrase. It's a little courage. Answer for real, not with a meme 🙏

3. Sometimes make the first move
Even if it seems to you that she is “kind of giving signals” — make a move. One honest gesture from your side can loosen our tongues (and hearts) 💌

4. Don’t consider confession as weakness
If a woman confessed first — it’s not “desperation”. It’s courage. And trust. And, perhaps, the compliment to you is bigger than you think 😉

We don’t want to play games. We want to be ourselves. And if you are the one who can hear a simple “I miss you” or “I like you” then, most likely, you are the one we have long wanted to be with 💕

So… if you feel that someone nearby is looking at you in a special way maybe you should just say:
“I feel it too.”

Or maybe you'll hear in response:
"I was afraid to say it, but... you too" 🥺❤️
Natalia❤️

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