True love is a sacrifice. The mother saves the child and sacrifices her life, the soldier goes to death to save the motherland, Christ crucifies for the sake of all people! Look, this is real Love. Here it is - a voluntary sacrifice for the sake of another! The victim is synonymous with love.
If I am a victim for the sake of my time, strength, desires, opportunities, while not demanding anything in return, not from under the stick, not at all in interest - then I love. I just want to do everything for this person that I can. This is love! And if he also treats me, then this is mutual Love! And this love is merciful, does not seek its own
Many will say that true love in our time can not be achieved, that this is an ideal, unrealizable dream. This is not true. True love can be grown in yourself, you can meet, you can grow up to it. But for this it is necessary to kill in oneself the selfishness that makes us blind, because the egoists see only themselves.True - expensive. In order to have it, it is necessary to apply a huge amount of effort. And we are much more concerned with what would be TO CALEND with something, and not BE by someone!