Hello, men 👋My name is Kristina, and today I will say out loud to you what many women only say inside their heads.
You often ask: "Why did she choose this one?" "Why is she drawn to me, but afraid?" "Why is everything perfect on the outside, but not inside?"
The answer is actually somewhere between our instincts and logic. And I want to explain to you how it works in our heads and bodies.

INSTINCTS: CHEMISTRY, SMELL, LOOK
You see, when a woman meets a man, the animal side kicks in first. It could be:
* How he smells (even if it's just the smell of skin, sweat, hormones, not perfume) 👃
* How he looks (a little longer, a little more confidently, with that same dose of impudence) 👀
* How he moves (relaxed, not fawning) 🐅
This is where our ancient internal mechanism kicks in: "He will be able to protect, fertilize, continue the family line." Sorry for being so blunt 😅. But this is how nature has programmed us.
Paradox: This man may be a complete madman, toxic or irresponsible - but the body has already said "I want". And this is where the fight begins.

LOGIC: TABLE OF PROS AND CONS
While instincts scream "He's an alpha, run after him!", logic takes out its table 📋:
* Does he have goals?
* How does he talk about exes?
* Does he work on himself?
* How does he treat waiters? 🍽️
* How does he react to my boundaries?
We scan all of this quickly and automatically. And if logic doesn't see any support, it puts on the brakes 🛑.

WHY DO INSTINCTS SOMETIMES WIN?
Because we also have periods of weakness, hunger for emotions, moments when we want to forget about the mind and dive into the "here and now". You call it "fell in", we call it "tired of being strong and correct".
And yes - sometimes a woman chooses not the one she "should", but the one who has broken through her at the level of the body 🔥.

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO, MEN?
Don't try to deceive nature - it can be seen from a mile away. Be whole:
* Work on yourself not for women, but for yourself 💪
* Don't feign confidence, but find it inside
* Learn to look honestly into the eyes
* Smell, gait, voice - all this comes with inner peace 😌
When instinct and logic coincide in you - a woman will choose you not because "it is necessary", but because she cannot do otherwise ❤️.
Kristina😍