Today we will talk about the 5 love languages ​​— a theory proposed by psychologist Gary Chapman. It helps you better understand yourself and make your relationship stronger and warmer. 🥰

💬 What are love languages?

Everyone expresses and perceives love differently. You could say each of us has our own “native language” of love. If you and your partner speak different languages, misunderstandings can easily arise — like you love each other, but something still feels off.

The 5 love languages:

1. Words of affirmation

Phrases like:
- “You’re the best”
- “I’m proud of you”
- “You look amazing today”

For people with this love language, words carry immense power. A partner may do a lot, but if they stay silent — it can feel like there’s no love.

👉 This might be your language if compliments and verbal appreciation make you light up and feel seen.

2. Quality time

The key is meaningful time together: going on walks, having conversations without phones, quiet evenings spent just the two of you.

These people need to feel present and intentional together. Not just being in the same room, but truly *being* together.

👉 This is your language if you feel loved when your partner gives you undivided time and attention.

3. Receiving gifts

It’s not about expensive things, but about thoughtful gestures: a chocolate bar on the way home, a sweet note, something that says, “I was thinking about you.”

👉 If these small tokens touch your heart — this is your language. What matters isn’t the size of the gift, but the love behind it.

4. Acts of service

Making you breakfast. Helping out with chores. Showing care. People with this love language feel loved when someone supports them through actions.

👉 This might be yours if you melt when someone helps you with daily life, and you deeply appreciate when your partner makes things easier for you.

5. Physical touch

Hugs, kisses, cuddles, holding hands — all of this carries deep emotional meaning for people with this language.

👉 If you feel most connected through physical closeness — this is your language.

🧠 How to figure out your love language?

1. Think about what you feel is missing in your relationships.
2. Consider how you usually show love to others.
3. Take a simple test — there are plenty online (for example, on Gary Chapman’s website).

Important: each of us might have multiple love languages, but one will usually be dominant.

🤝 How to understand your partner’s love language?

1. Observe: what do they often do for you?
2. Ask: “When do you feel most loved by me?”
3. Experiment — express love in different ways and watch how they respond.

💡 Why does this matter?

Knowing love languages helps you not just love — but do it in a way the other person *feels*. It’s a language that brings you closer, heals misunderstandings, and strengthens your bond.

❤️ One last thing to remember:

Love is a choice. And speaking your partner’s love language is a sign of care and maturity. When both of you make the effort to understand each other — even with different “dialects” — your relationship becomes deeper, warmer, and stronger.