Who knows how to reliably "tie" a man? Yes - exactly the one that you liked. If you listen to friends in this matter, I can only sympathize. After all, it's just theorists. Even if it happened once by chance, this is an exception, not a rule. The only ones who can help to know this secret are men.
I think it's time to end the intrigue  Because I propose a simple question - how can you be so different from other girls that a man will want to give his life and freedom to your tender hands?
The answer is simple - you can support it in what it is not supported by another girl! Find this "button" will not be easy, because a man will not tell the first one about his secret desires and hobbies. Only when he trusts - you can learn his secrets. And here it is important not to miss the chance. Of course - if you really want to get his "hand and heart".
Hmm.. the Situation... Suppose he likes collecting stamps. Ordinary postage stamps. Most girls will find this occupation boring, not fashionable and at best will reconcile with it. But your task is to be the Other. Understand what he likes in ordinary pieces of paper with printed images. And love it with all your heart, just as you fell in love with this man.
It is this love that will be so unusual that he will not be able to abandon you, because he will not be able to find the next one.
Just? More than! But this is how the strongest relations are built!

Marina