Hi guys! My name is Maria, and today I want to talk to you about a sore but important topic — the friend zone. That very zone where you seem to be needed... but not in the role you'd like 😑 I'll tell you how we, women, see it from our side and what you can do if you've already ended up there.
📌 WHY DID YOU END UP THERE?
In short, we quickly read your intentions. And if you:
* Too convenient ✅
* Always in touch 📱
* ​​Afraid to show that you want more 😶
* Constantly adjusting
…you automatically fall into the "reliable friend" category. And you can be cool! But not as a man. We love confident, slightly daring people, those who are not afraid to show their true colors 😉
📌 HOW TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE ALREADY IN THE "FRIENDZONE"?
Here are honest signals from us:
* She discusses other guys with you 🥲
* Cries into your shoulder after dates
* Calmly talks about her complexes
* Minimal physical contact
* You always adjust to her convenience
If it's about you - 🚨 red flag!
📌 WHAT TO DO IF YOU'RE ALREADY THERE?
First - become less accessible. Disappear for a couple of days, take care of yourself, sports, hobbies 💪Let her understand that you're not only about her.
Second - change the tone of communication. Add some light flirting 😉, confidence, a little daring. Compliments - yes, but without flattery. Show that you are a man, not a girlfriend.
Third, initiative. Not "whenever it's convenient for you," but "I'm going to a concert on Friday 🎶 — do you want to come with me?"
And most importantly, be prepared for the fact that she may not react. This is normal. But you will remain a man who respects himself and his time.
📌 WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT?
A man who sets boundaries, shows interest, but does not dissolve in a woman — evokes respect and interest. You want to be with him, and not just "cry on his shoulder" 🙃
Maria😉