I'm writing this to you, men, because too often you don't understand us, and we don't explain. I'm correcting you 😉
When a woman says that she doesn't need "all of you", but only your best 20% - this is not about consumerism 🛒, not about selfishness 😈 and not about cold calculation. This is about the natural human desire to be with a strong 💪, inspiring ✨, confident man.
I'll explain.
Each of you has bright sides, the best versions of yourself 🌟 - the ones you turn on when you want to impress, conquer, be on top 🚀. These are the moments when you are attentive, strong, passionate, purposeful, sexy 😏, when your eyes are shining, and there is drive inside. These are the 20% that I want to see ❤️. Because they contain your energy, your essence, your nature.
And the rest... fatigue 😴, passivity, whining, resentment, the habit of dumping everything on others, avoiding responsibility 🙄 - this is what you yourself do not like in yourself. And honestly? I don’t have to accept this either. Not because I “don’t really love” 💔, but because you can be different. You know that you can.
I don’t need your whole helpless, sloppy, uninitiative 100% 😶‍🌫️. After all, you don’t put out the whole spectrum of your personality at work - you include the best qualities 🎯. And at home — do you turn it off? Why is that? 🤨
We want to be with those who make us stronger, calmer, inspire us, and with whom we want to open up 🌸. And not those who we have to save, pull, or tolerate all the time 😵‍💫.
And it's not about always being a hero 🦸 or perfect. The point is to try to live at least for your woman on these best 20% 🌿. They are in you. And when you show them — you are different. Alive, interesting, real. It is you that is loved, respected, wanted ❤️‍🔥.
And if you yourself decided that “she should love me no matter who I am” — ask yourself, do you love yourself “no matter who”? 🤔 Or still the one who acts, achieves, moves forward, and keeps himself in hand? 👌
Believe me, these 20% are not a mask 🎭. This is you. The one you can always be. And with whom we want to be 💞.
So it's not that we "take only the best", but that it is in this "best" that you become yourself 💥.

Natalia💋