To begin...there is a great expression in the U.S. that says, "every woman will have the love life of her choosing".

Sadly, respect is not always "given" by men OR women.

As for how to "get" respect...one cannot "demand" respect, rather, you need to "command" respect. This must be done at the time you meet someone, not at
some point later when you become disappointed in a man's behavior or attitude.

Women, most importantly, need to stand on their principles from the moment you meet someone you may be interested in.

Is she is opinionated, only date a man who respects your opinions.

If she needs her own "space" and time for herself...this is not negotiable. Only date a man who respects this.

For a woman who enjoys being complimented...she should be able to see this
very early in a relationship. Only date a man who appreciates this and you and
enjoys telling you how much he does.

Another great saying is, "You can't teach an old dog new tricks".

Why would you expect a man who has never done any of the things you
need to be happy to somehow wake up one day and appreciate all of your needs?

As for who is to blame...it is YOU, the person who has chosen a man you:

a. thought you could change or mold

b. ignored these things because he was very attractive, had money or was great in bed

c. all of the above

You will have the love life you choose. So, choose a man whose greatest joy is
bringing this to you.

Command respect and it will be yours. Great question though Anna Belle.