Because sometimes it seems like all guys are the same. They promise to “not be like everyone else,” and then act exactly like those who preceded them. Dissatisfaction, deceived expectations, a word that loses its meaning, and actions that make the “difference” invisible. But in reality, it’s not all that gloomy. Girls are not looking for a superhero ready to throw the world at her feet. They don’t demand something impossible. All they want is for that guy to come along at least once in their lives who will really prove himself - not only with words, but also with actions. For him to prove that there is another way, other values, another approach. A guy who won't repeat the mistakes of previous relationships and won't play by the old rules. He's ready to meet halfway, not just take. He's ready to understand, not just expect her to think for both. And if not from the first minutes, then at least after some time, he'll prove that he's capable of love, honesty, and realness.
This doesn't mean that the girl is looking for an ideal. She doesn't demand that the guy be perfect, just that he be honest and sincere. In a world where there are so many formulaic relationships, it's important to understand that the girl wants something deeper. She wants to feel that she's appreciated not only for her appearance or for how she's ready to support him. She wants to be listened to, not ignored. For her opinion to be important, not just a background noise. And most importantly, she wants to feel that this guy is not afraid to be himself, is not afraid to open up and show his vulnerabilities.
Maybe it sounds trite. But believe me, for many girls this is a sincere desire. This is the desire to be loved truly, and not as one of many. We all know very well that "not all guys are the same." But how I wish this were true not only in theory, but also in real life. For one guy, at least one, to prove that he is ready to be not just part of the crowd, but the one who will love truly, understanding that the girl in front of him is unique. So, perhaps, you are the one who will destroy stereotypes and show that love is not a one-time game, but a deep and real feeling worthy of every girl.