Comparison with others is a natural human reaction, but it can be destructive. We often subconsciously start measuring ourselves against the successes, achievements, or lifestyles of others. This can happen in any area — career, relationships, physical appearance, or even external beauty. But what do we really gain from this comparison?

First and foremost, it's a constant feeling of dissatisfaction with ourselves. Instead of celebrating our own accomplishments, we begin to focus on what we lack compared to others. This trap can lead to stress, anxiety, and even depression.

The problem is that we only see the external side of other people's lives — their successes and achievements — but we never know what lies behind that. Everyone has their own struggles, inner challenges, and moments of doubt. The external image we admire may hide a completely different reality.

Comparing ourselves to others is like competing with runners at the starting line without knowing what their training is like or how far they are running. We are all unique and on our own path, and it's important to understand that others' achievements shouldn't make us question our own. Instead of focusing on others, it's better to focus on getting to know ourselves and our personal goals.

Focus on what matters to you. Every day is an opportunity to move forward in a direction that's meaningful to you. Your life is not a race, and there's no need to try to be someone else. You are the best version of yourself, and that is already success.