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When he disappeared. online dating ghosts.
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He wrote to you every day. Good morning, kind words, gentle flirtations.
He knew that you loved chocolate and that you were afraid of thunderstorms.
He said, “You’re like a sip of sunshine. It’s easy to be with you.”
And then he just… disappeared.
No explanations. No arguments. No goodbyes.
A ghost. An online ghost. 👻
You reread the correspondence.
Looking for what you said wrong, where you went too far, or maybe you’re boring?
And it hurts more than you want to admit.
Because you weren’t just texting — you were hoping. And you invested.
But you know what?
This isn’t about you. This is about him.
He didn’t know how to say that he wasn’t ready.
He was afraid of feelings. Or responsibility. Or you — the real you, the living you.
Or maybe he just wasn’t looking for something serious.
Maybe you were a game to him, and you wanted love.

💡 It's important to remember: a ghost is not a sign of your inadequacy.
It's a sign of his immaturity.
You deserve a man who doesn't disappear.
Who doesn't drop the conversation in the middle.
Who isn't afraid of your depth.
So... dry your tears. Text someone new. Or just yourself.
Pour some wine. Eat a piece of that very chocolate.
And repeat out loud:
"He left because he wasn't mine. And mine won't leave."

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