Hi! I'm writing to you on behalf of a woman who knows how it all looks from our side. Sometimes we give signals that men read incorrectly. Or correctly but ignore. It's time to clarify!
Men often ask: "Is she really interested or is she just flirting for self-esteem?" The answer is not always obvious, but here are some honest hints. If you are not looking for a game, but want to understand who is in front of you read carefully 👇

1. Her interest in you does not depend on your attention ❌👀
If you disappeared from the radar, and she did not even ask "how are you?" — this is already a signal. A woman who is looking for a serious relationship will notice your absence. And if not, it means she was just bored and you were a convenient distraction 🎭

2. She wants to know YOU, not just "look at you" 🤝
If she is really interested, she asks, listens, remembers. She cares. But if the answers are only at the level of "mmm, cool" and another story with a cocktail - this is not the place 🍹🙃

3. Words and actions match ✅
"I'm looking for something serious" - but at the same time she disappears, ignores and is constantly "busy"? 🤷‍♂️ Don't fall for words. Real interest is actions, not beautiful phrases.

4. She has a place for you - in her schedule and in her life 🗓️❤️
She offers meetings, looks for opportunities to see you, and does not make excuses for weeks. A woman who is truly interested in you will not "pause" you because she suddenly wants to "reboot" - this is most often a code word for "I'm looking at who else is out there" 🤫

5. She has boundaries - and she respects yours 🧭
No games of "I'll disappear for a couple of days" or "what if you get jealous". A woman who is serious is direct and clear. She wants to build, not check how much you've bitten 🎯

💡 If you're constantly guessing how she feels - that's already the answer.
A woman who has serious intentions will not leave behind a puzzle. She can be cautious, yes. But she will not yank you, keep you "on the hook" or feed you with expectations.
Ask direct questions. Don't be afraid to hear the truth. It's better to find out everything now than to realize in three months that all this time you were just a nice background for her evening vibe.

RESPECT YOURSELF. LOOK FOR THOSE WHO LOOK FOR YOU. With warmth and honesty - A woman who is for sincerity 🖤
Kristina❤️