My name is Nastya, and I am the same woman who "accidentally" registered on a dating site two years ago during a break between coffee β and Zoom π. Spoiler: I am still together with that man π. Not because I was lucky π. But because both of us — yes, and he too πͺ — worked to keep the spark alive a month after the first "hey, what are you into?" π₯.
I want to talk to you, men π. Without reproaches, without cliches and without sugary "girly" notes π. Just being honest and to the point — what really helps maintain interest, passion, and respect in online relationships that have gone beyond likes and texts π¬π².
1. π‘ BE REAL, EVEN IF IT MEANS BEING VULNERABLE
Yes, first impressions are important πΌ. But what’s even more important is how you remain months later π°οΈ. Too many couples “burn out” because the man plays the alpha male π¦ at the start. We don’t need a superhero. We need a person π§βοΈ.
Secret: the ability to talk about yourself honestly π¬, including your weaknesses, is not a weakness. It’s trust π€. And trust is fuel for the spark π₯.
2. π ONLINE DOESN'T MEAN "CHEAPER"
Many people make the mistake of thinking that since there are no meetings, there is no need to make any effort β. Flowers are not sent π, dates are not arranged π½οΈ, everything turns into "what did you eat today?" π and "how was your day?" π΄
Secret: come up with a mini-date π½οΈ. A joint film on Zoom π¬, a surprise package π¦, a video greeting π or just an email π. Yes, it takes time and brains π§ . But the effect is as if you are nearby, even if a thousand kilometers away π.
3. π REGULARITY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN LUMP
A huge bouquet once a month will not replace 5 minutes of voice every day ποΈ. Women cling not to gestures, but to consistency: attention, contact, participation π§.
Secret: choose a ritual for yourself π. Let it be a call before bed π, a joke in the morning π, memes at lunch πΈ. Small anchors bring people closer together more than spontaneous outbursts β‘.
4. π FLIRT SHOULD NEVER DIE
Flirting is not just for the beginning β€οΈπ₯. Many guys relax when “everything seems to be going well” ποΈ. They stop writing how she looks π; forget how they teased π; don't flirt because "we're already together" π€·βοΈ.
Secret: flirting is like a fire π₯. If you don't add fuel, it goes out. Don't be boring π€. She wants you to want her not out of habit, but like that first day π.
5. π PLANS ARE A PRELUDE TO REAL CLOSER HAPPINESS
You can't be in a long-term relationship if you don't have prospects π£οΈ. Even if you live in different countries βοΈ. If a man doesn't say, "I want us to...", a woman hears, "This is temporary" π³οΈ.
Secret: share your dreams π . Not promises, but ideas. "When we meet, I'll take you there" πΊοΈ, "Imagine if we lived together - you would make coffee, and I would cook eggs" βπ³. This is verbal glue. Without it, relationships fall apart π§©.
π¬ AND FINALLY: A WOMAN LOVES WITH HER EARS - BUT REMEMBERS ACTIONS πβ€οΈ
Online or offline is not an excuse π«. It's just a format. The main thing is to remain attentive, interesting, included π―. In our age of technology, courting has become even easier - all you need is desire and a little creativity π¨β¨.
Choose to be not just a guy from correspondence π¬, but a man who knows how to keep the fire π₯.
With warmth and respect, Nastyaπ
Quick Search

Prices & Services
Letters from 2$
Fast Gift Delivery
2-way Video Chat
5 Membership Levels
View all rates