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Sometimes, by breaking something good, you can build something better (or why it is not always scary to break something that seems to be “working”).
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A good job is stable, but it burns you out.
A good relationship is without passion, but without scandals.
A good life is predictable, but it seems not yours.
And everything seems to be fine. Without disasters.
But inside there is emptiness. Or silence. Or a feeling that you are not living at full capacity.

And then the moment comes. A click. A crack. The question:
“What if I let it all go?”

Scary? Very.
Because we were brought up in the culture of “don’t break it if it works”.
But it happens that “it works” does not mean “it lives”.
And then the only way is to break it.
Not in hysteria, but in awareness. Not from pain, but from maturity.

Sometimes, to build a dream home, you need to tear down the old one.
Sometimes, to find yourself, you need to lose everything you're used to.
Sometimes, to breathe, you need to get out of the "good" - to where it's scary, but free.

Yes, it will hurt. It will be confusing. It will seem like you've gone crazy.
But then - like in a puzzle - new pieces will start to come together.
Surprisingly, you will suddenly understand: from the fragments of the old "good" a real "better" has formed.

So if something in you is bursting to get out - don't be afraid.
Maybe you've simply outgrown what once seemed comfortable.
And now - it's time to live for real.

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