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Every girl should remember: you don't need those who don't need you.
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You are not a temporary phenomenon in someone's life.
You are not the one who is remembered when bored.
You are not the one who can be ignored for three days, and then write "hi :)" as if nothing happened.

Every girl, no matter how old she is, no matter how soft, daring, romantic, ironic she is, deserves to be with someone who really cares about her.
And not with someone who is simply comfortable when you are around.

If you are appreciated, it can be seen.
Not by words, but by actions.
Not by promises, but by participation.
Not by rare flashes of attention, but by constant presence.

And if you still think:
"Maybe I'm overdoing it... maybe I should wait... maybe he's just busy..." —
Ask yourself a counter question:
And if you were really needed — wouldn't you feel it?

Love is not a game of catch-up.

Not a fight for someone's attention.

Not an endless game of "keep it simple, and they'll come to you."
It's when you're chosen. Over and over again. Even if you're without makeup, in a bad mood, and eating a second helping of pasta.

So if you feel like you're not appreciated — leave.
No hysterics. No explanations. Just with understanding:
"I want to go where I'm wanted. Where I'm welcome. Where I'm not a temporary option, but the only choice."

And yes — you can handle it. Always.

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