I was always surprised when girls start looking for the "perfect" man - young, rich, with beautiful external data. And it seems normal: you want the best, everyone wants someone who will be there and at the same time is externally attractive. But, in my opinion, we often forget that behind these external data there is a whole person. A person who has his own story, his own mistakes and his own experiences. A person who may not look like a cover model, but can be incredibly smart, kind and loyal.

I often wonder why this is so? Why now, in the 21st century, do we so often follow trends, even in love? I myself notice how easy it is to fall under the influence of stereotypes: if a guy does not correspond to this "ideal", then we immediately write him off. Forgetting that love is not about ideal figures or luxury cars. It is about loving a person as he is, with his past, his experience, with his strengths and weaknesses.

I believe that it is important to learn to love without conditions. Yes, of course, everyone wants someone successful, beautiful and bright, but love should not be made according to a template. It is like in good old relationships, where external attributes were not important, but feelings, sincerity and care for the other person.

I am sad that now many girls forget about this, fixating on the material and external. Yes, trends influence, it is no secret. They often make us think about what should be exactly like this - young, successful, athletic. But is love really about finding someone who meets our external expectations? Or is it about finding someone you can go through life with, regardless of what they have in their wallet or what they look like?

I believe that love is something that is given to us in the soul, not something we look for in material things or appearance. Wisdom comes with experience, and I am convinced that the truly important things are not the fact that a person has a new sports car, but how they look at life, what is important to them, what they are like in a relationship. After all, true love is when you accept a person with their past, with their mistakes and victories. Unconditionally.

I remember my past and understand that all the best relationships I have had were built not on external signs, but on deep mutual understanding and acceptance of each other. This does not mean that it does not matter what a person looks like or what their status is. But when love is real, it will always be worth more than banal stereotypes about what an ideal partner should be.

Let's remember that love is not about trends, looks, or money. It's about a person with their life, their values, their experiences. And if you find someone who understands, accepts, and supports you, then everything else is just details that don't matter. Am I right?

In the end, we're all just looking for human warmth and attention, not perfect people. Becoming better for someone is great, but true love starts with accepting each other unconditionally.