Hello to everybody!

I hope my blog will be useful and you will understand why you still living lonely life. There is no other causer of this but you, not other men, not other women, not this site, not the weather or bad Internet connection, just you.

It is easy to place blame. That is why we do it. When you place blame, on something or someone other than ourselves, we are taking the responsibility away from ourselves and placing it on something that we believe is "outside our control". When something is outside our control then we do not have to take responsibility for it, and therefore do not have to ask, “What did I do wrong?” However, the fact is most things that happen to us are in our control, even the fact that we are allowing outside forces to control our outcomes. The act of blaming is actively passing on the control of your outcome on something or someone else. If you continue to do this, placing blame on others, you will never live the life that you were meant to live.

The first step to achieving what you want out of life is to take responsibility for your thoughts, actions, and decisions. The second step is taking responsibility for not only the successes but also the failures of those thoughts, actions, and decisions. The third step is using the failures you encounter, not as blaming yourself for being a failure, but as lessons to learn from so when you face this challenge or situation again, you will be prepared. And the fourth step is to reflect inward and ask yourself what you can do to be better and place yourself in a position where you can shine.

All these thoughts are related to all life aspects including relations. Men, please, if you are really serious oriented, do not write all your deepest sexual fantasies to ladies in your first letter and do not ask them to get undressed in first chat. Ladies, do not provoke men to think that they allowed doing anything they want just because you are afraid of loneliness.

Let’s all respect each other as we all on the same side, we all are looking for love)))

Anna