I think it’s not a question of religious beliefs, but rather how a person understands his place in a relationship and in the world. Faith certainly plays a role, but it’s important to remember that it’s not the only key to happiness. Why? Because true happiness in marriage depends on much deeper, more important things.

Let’s say a man is a religious person. He goes to church, prays, and maintains traditions. This is great, of course, but if he can’t be a kind, tolerant, caring partner, then what guarantees are there that such a marriage will bring happiness?

I think that the most important thing for any marriage is not only faith, but also how a person understands love and affection. When we talk about love, we cannot forget that it is not only feelings, but also an action. It is responsibility, it is the willingness to respect another person, to understand him and support him in the most difficult situations. And it certainly does not depend on whether a man crosses himself before eating or whether he is a member of the Catholic community.

After all, in essence, faith is not just a set of rituals and ceremonies. Faith is a personal life with God, which is reflected in how you treat yourself and others. It is a desire to become better, to love, forgive and accept a person as he is. If this is not there, then even the most religious person can have problems in relationships.

I remember moments from my life when I met people who, it would seem, were not at all interested in religion, but at the same time showed great love and care for others. These were not just people who followed the rules of morality, but those who sincerely supported and believed in the power of love and mutual understanding. Their faith was deep, although it was not always outwardly expressed in traditional Catholic ritual.

Perhaps most importantly, such people understood the value of spiritual principles, even if they did not express them through church rituals. And this was a real revelation for me. I did not need to look at their religiosity to see how they strived for goodness, honesty and justice.

So in marriage, it is not how a person believes that matters, but how he knows how to live and share his life with others.

Now let's think about what really affects happiness in marriage. In my opinion, it is not only the coincidence of religious views that is important, but also how the spouses understand the meaning of life and relationships. Believers, of course, can find support in prayers and in their religion, but this does not mean that people who do not belong to religious traditions cannot build a happy union.

But in reality, sometimes it's not whether you share the same faith, but how each of you perceives the relationship. How you build your life and happiness. If your actions come from love and honesty, then even if your partner does not share your religiousness, your relationship can be strong.

We are all different, and that's okay. What matters is how we treat each other. No matter how you define yourself in a religious context, try to be a person who brings light and support. And then you will have a much better chance of finding the person with whom you will be truly happy.

Do you agree?

Lana Banana