Let's agree right away: this text is not about how to please us, women, or how to become an ideal girlfriend, wife or lover. It is rather a conversation about what a modern woman really requires, and what is simply imposed on her in advertising, as "default" standards. Because, unfortunately, not everything that sparkles brightly on advertising billboards has any relation to real life.❤️
So, let's figure out how to assemble a woman like a constructor. And let's start with the most important thing - with what we really need. 💡
1. Respect and attention are eternal 🌹
Oh, this is the basis of the basics. Women need not just the feeling that they are loved, but that they are treated with respect. This is not an advertisement for an "ideal woman" with model parameters. This is an attitude towards the individual, an understanding that she is an individual, and not an accessory to your world. It is important for women to be heard and appreciated, and not just "taken for granted." These are not just words, this is reality, and if this is not in your life, you should not hope that advertising on TV will solve the problem.
2. Honesty and openness are not secrets and riddles 🔍💬
Men, you often confuse us with mysterious characters that need to be solved like crosswords. No, we are not oracles, and you do not need to be psychics to understand what is important to us. We value honesty. Straightforwardness. If there is a problem, say so right away, and do not wait for it to "go away on its own." We don't need the mysterious dark corners of your thoughts and the mysterious pauses that advertising companies squeeze into images of ideal relationships. We need real, simple things.
3. Laughter and support - a fine line between happiness and survival 😄🤗
Life is different, and it can't always be called a fairy tale. There are moments when you need not only to be there, but also to be able to make someone laugh. Women need not just attention, but support in any situation. Yes, irony and humor are what help you get through any difficulties. In advertising, you are often shown only ideal moments - beautiful parties, smiling people, impeccable relationships. But real life is also the ability to laugh and support each other in difficult moments. This is what a woman needs to be happy.
4. Independence is necessary not because we don’t want your help, but because it’s our strength 💪
You shouldn’t perceive our independence as a refusal of a relationship or as a desire to “be myself”. On the contrary, it’s our way of being strong, not hiding behind you. We understand that you want to be our knights on a white horse, but you must understand that a strong woman can solve problems herself. In real life, we need to be confident in ourselves so as not to lose heart at the first difficulty. So don’t worry when we decide something ourselves. This doesn’t mean that we don’t need you. We can just be strong without your superhero abilities.
5. Care — not only in the form of expensive gifts, but in little things 🎁💖
Here’s a little secret: women value attention in little things much more than in luxurious gestures. There is nothing like the feeling of your partner bringing you a cup of tea without asking or helping you with a chore without expecting gratitude. The problem is not money, but the lack of attention and care in everyday moments. Advertising standards are when you are shown a woman who values ​​expensive things and gourmet food. But in reality, she needs attention and support in everyday, sometimes boring moments.
6. Honest conversations, not idealized relationships 🗣️❤️


Everything you are shown in movies and advertising is an ideal relationship that does not exist in real life. We do not need you to be perfect (believe me, it is impossible). We are not looking for mystical men who can guess our desires in five seconds. We need you to be able to talk to us openly and honestly, without hiding your emotions. When we say "we need to talk," we don't mean a series of phrases with pathetic attempts to guess what we're thinking. We want to understand each other.
7. A simple "thank you" is a miracle for the soul 🙏🌟
Yes, we're used to the fact that many things are done automatically, but small words of recognition and gratitude make the day. We don't need a word of praise for every action, but at least once a day just say "thank you." This is much more valuable than any expensive gifts that are often perceived as obligatory. Advertising often doesn't show this, because it's easier to sell an image than to talk about simple things that really create strong relationships.
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If you want to understand what a woman needs, you don't need to look for answers in advertising. Everything is much simpler. We don't want you to be perfect, we want you to be real. No need to assemble us piece by piece, like a construction set. We already have everything to be happy, and you just need to respect it. And don't forget that the most important thing is attention, honesty, support and little things that can change everything. 💫
Simple things are not what they sell on billboards. They are what really make us happy. 😊
Natalia❤️