Where does this feeling come from

In the beginning, everything is easy and fun. Every day is a discovery, every gesture is special. But time goes on, and the relationship is included in the rhythm. Habits are established, duties appear, an element of surprise disappears. This is fine. We cannot always live in a state of love. But when the novelty leaves, it is important to find something deeper: real proximity, understanding and warm affection.

If this does not happen, a void appears between people. It is called boredom. Not because the person is nearby, but because you both "fell asleep" a little in a relationship.

A signal for a break or a chance to start at first?

The question that torments many: if I am bored - does this mean that it is time to part? Not always. Boredom is rather a signal than a sentence. She says that relations require update. And if both have a desire to maintain a connection, boredom can be turned into a growth point.

After all, it does not leave romance, but we cease to create it. Interest does not disappear, but simply becomes invisible to everyday worries. Sometimes an honest conversation, a new common goal or just a change of familiar rhythm - and life appears in a relationship again.

What to do with this condition?

To begin with, it is worth recognizing that it is. Do not hide behind excuses and do not blame each other. Boring-it means that something needs to be changed. Together. Perhaps it's time to get out the memories of what used to bring joy from memory. Remember how you laughed what united you, what dreams you had together. Sometimes even one sincere “I miss you” can change a lot.

And if frankness is a response, this is a good sign. This means that both still want to do something, and not just watch the extinction.

Boredom in a relationship can be frightening, but it does not always talk about the end. Sometimes it's just a pause in which the opportunity is hidden. The ability to review, restart, re -fall in love with a friend. The main thing is not to be silent, not to put off, not to ignore.

Love is not only about passion. This is also about work. And, perhaps, boredom is the moment when you should work a little in order to feel again why you are together.