So, if you haven't looked at my profile before, then despite the fact that I'm quite young, I've already been there, and it's not that I was impressed. 😅
This does not mean that I am not going to get married again, but now I want to immediately pay attention to those things that were not important to me as it seemed to me. Therefore, the opinion can be considered subjective, and it is not 100% for everyone, but I think many will understand and agree on what I mean...👀

1. Listen how a man's inner peace breaks out and fills everything around with aroma! 🦨💨
Let's be honest. Well, to put it mildly, it's not a thrill for women, if we don't pay attention to it after some time, it doesn't mean that we like it, and we want more, more powerful, and with a big expression!

2. It's long time for those who wear things to rest! 👕🧵🤦🏻‍♀️
I certainly do not claim that this is the case for everyone, but as I wrote at the beginning, I think most people will understand what I am talking about. I discussed it with my friends, there are also such moments in families. It's when you throw things in the laundry and notice the very worn T-shirt in which you plan not only to grow up with your partner from school or student years, but also to grow old with her. And everything would be fine, but everything has its limit, and there are things that, to put it mildly, have already outlived themselves, somewhere there are already sewn holes, somewhere the T-shirt is starting to look more like a tunic. But if you want it to be thrown away, you will not be greeted...😱

3. If both work and earn money, why should only the wife remain a housewife?💼🍳🧽
Here's the thing that creeps me out, even when we work the same way (although I mostly had a 10-hour work schedule when I was married). Why, when I come home, I can't feel the warmth and comfort that I try to leave there... Instead, I see that additional work is still waiting for me. Only after that I will be able to earn the recognition of the same Leo who is busy with the sound and aroma design of your house.

4. Only men can have interests under the blanket, women will fulfill them... 🛏🙄
Well, this is a general topic for 1,000,000, because it really seems that only the leader of the pack can have interests, and it is the tribe's business to follow orders.
But how interesting it turns out at the beginning of the relationship, when the peacock spreads its feathers, it spreads them in order to pull you under the blanket, and so that everything went well, and there was no need to read an angry review in the book of mourning. But over time, this all transforms into a one-goal game. And then the question arises, so where does the desire disappear? And the answer is simple, if the relationship ceases to be a matter of two people and turns into a game of one goal, then desire, like the tail of a peacock, simply forms and drags somewhere behind, but without that loose effect...

Conclusion: the experience that was given to you earlier can be the best lesson or subject for analysis about how not to step on the same rake again. 💡 And I share it so that you can look at some things from the other side, and maybe change something, but only so that your future will be better!💬❤️

P.S. If this work is interesting and useful, I can write a sequel later.

Sincerely, divorced Alena 🫦