Hello. It's me, a woman who has long understood one important thing: men also experience Mother's Day. They just... do it differently. And more often - silently 🤫
Some of you are quietly staring at the ceiling on the morning of May 12, unable to find the right words even for yourself. Someone is buying roses at a stall 🌹 and wondering how not to burst into tears on the way. And someone is gritting their teeth, scrolling through Instagram, where other people's mothers are alive, young and smiling 📱😔.
I see it 👀. I respect it. And that's why I am writing for you 🖤.

💬 "I just don't like this day."
You're not alone. You'd be surprised how many men actually can't stand this holiday. Because it's pain - a lost mother 💔, a difficult relationship, a feeling of guilt that has been gnawing at you since you were 18. ⠀And you know what? It doesn't make you bad. It makes you alive 🫀.

📞 "I call, but the conversation is always awkward."
Yes, mothers are not perfect. And not all heart-to-heart conversations are with candy and a blanket 🍬🧣. Sometimes all you can do is just say: "Hi, I remember. Thank you for raising me" 🙏. Even if inside there is a lump in your throat and a thousand unspoken words.

💡 Why is this important?
Because men are not robots 🤖. You have wounds too 🩹. But society accepts that you should be “strong”, “brutal”, “keep it all to yourself” 💪.
Do you know what’s really cool? When you’re a grown man and you can say: 👉 “Yes, I miss my mom” 👉 “Yes, it hurts me on this day” 👉 “Yes, I’m proud of how she raised me”
This is not weakness. This is strength ⚡. This is maturity.

🌱 What can you do?
✅ Write to her. Even if it’s difficult ✍️✅ Remember how she laughed. Or how she swore - after all, there was love in that too 💬❤️✅ Talk to your son or daughter about grandma. Or just tell the story she told you 📖👦👧
You continue it — even if you don’t notice it yourself 🔁.

On this Mother’s Day, I raise a glass to you, men 🥂. To those who call. To those who are silent. To those who remember 🧠💞. ⠀You don’t have to be perfect. But if you at least look into your heart a little on this day ❤️ —⠀you’ve already done the main thing.
With love —The woman who sees you 👩‍🦰✨
Tanya❤️