Recently I’ve read a provocative post by a fascinating lady reflecting on Modern Marriage. She is RIGHT and is hinting about the REAL ANSWER, which Dr Harley suggests is HIS NEEDS HER NEEDS, elaborated in his classic book and vast website reflecting his years of counsel and wisdom for those of us who’ve been “lost in marriage, now seeking to be found”! Might I suggest that thirsty souls also explore his concepts, articles, REAL SOLUTIONS for those HUNGRY, WILLING to SAVE A MARRIAGE or BUILD A LASTING ONE? In essence, DISCOVER your LOVERS CORE NEEDS, STUDY THEM and then DECIDE BY SPECIFIC CONTRACT, whether YOU AGREE TO MEET THOSE NEEDS. You might be surprised by the results, as I am with My Love?