The opposites seem mysterious to us. They open before us a different view of life. We reach for those who complement us - or to those who live not like us. This intrigues, inspires, starts.
But how real is it to be together?

At first, everything seems romantic. One jokes, the other is serious. One impulsive, the other is cautious. Like pieces of puzzle, they fold into one.

But over time, the differences may begin to annoy. One wants silence - the other turns on the entire volume. One is accumulating money, the other lives today. And here the check begins: the couple is ready to accept the features of each other or not?

What helps such couples?

The main thing is not to try to remake a partner.
Relations between different people work when there is:

- Respect for someone else's lifestyle

- Willingness to negotiate

- General values, even if the characters are different

For example, if both appreciate honesty, family, support - this is already the basis. Everything else can be smooth out if there is a desire to be near.
How to understand that this is not just a flash?

Sometimes attraction to opposite is just an interest. It is bright, but quickly goes out. To understand if there is a prospect, you should pay attention:

- Is there any trust and respect between you?

- Can you calmly discuss disagreements?

- Are you ready to change a little for each other?

If you answer these questions “yes”, then perhaps this is not just a flash, but the beginning of real feelings.

The attraction of opposites is not a myth. But not a universal recipe for happiness. It all depends on how ready you are to accept each other, see the value in the differences and support each other, despite them.

Sometimes it is in these differences that real harmony is born - not perfect, but living and real.