When a person is always correct, without sharp emotions and sharp corners, he becomes like an image, and not a living person. We get used to that relations are not only support and calm, but also vivid moments, spontaneity, sincere emotions. And ideality often kills spontaneity.

Sometimes it seems that such a person is just "too good to be real." And we reach for the present - even if it is not always convenient.

Where is the place for conflicts?

The lack of disputes may look like a plus, but without healthy disagreements, relationships lose dynamics. We develop through the exchange of views, even if they are different. If the partner constantly agrees, does not express his feelings and experiences, this may cause the feeling that you are alone in this relationship.

Living emotions, sincere conversations, even quarrels (if they are constructive) make relations real, rich, and not glossy.

Fear of being "uncomfortable"

Sometimes fear is hidden behind the “ideality”. People are afraid to seem good enough, afraid to lose a partner - and try to be as “convenient as possible”. But as a result, the personality disappears, and only the effort to correspond. And then you begin to get tired - not from a person, but from the feeling that he is not in front of you, but his mask.

What to do?

If you feel that you are tired of the “ideal” partner, it is important to ask yourself a few questions:

- Is there real proximity between you?

- Do you feel that you can be yourself?

- Does the partner have his own opinion and the inner world?

It happens that behind the mask of ideality a deep, interesting person is hidden, he is just afraid to open. It is important to create a space where you can be different - with pluses and minuses.

We do not get tired of care, attention and kindness - but from the absence of editing. Relations are not a game of ideal, but the path of two people who have emotions, mistakes, changes. And this is what makes love alive.