We are already accustomed to the view that beauty lies in the eyes. However, what you will take for beauty, others may seem even ugly, and not beautiful at all. You can look for the beauty of the face inside, in how a person carries the very aura of beauty. The important thing is not how beautiful a person is, but rather, how naturally this aura emanates from him. Beauty in kindness, which lies in this man's aura, in a peaceful manner, in some kind of confidence and inner calmness. Individuals with absolute correctness of features, beautiful seemingly external data, can be selfish, arrogant, fidgety or arrogant, can be at all costs trying to show their superiority over others. Such superficial beauty will not last forever. People grow old and external features are erased.
Time changes us both physically and internally, the exterior does not remain with you forever. While the inner beauty of a person will last forever. Superficial beauty is not able to make a strong impression and, striving at all costs to get a beautiful face and an ideal body with the help of Botox injections and various wonders of plastic surgery, it is unlikely that they will achieve universal reverence.
Inner beauty
The inner beauty of a person comes naturally and unpretentiously. It may not be the most ideal kind, but it comes from a person when he smiles, from his manner of speaking and treating others with kindness and tenderness. You understand how beautiful such a person is, and the beauty of the inner, of course, prefer external beauty. A person with a beautiful soul, eclipses beautiful faces that have the emptiness of nature. Thus, the inner beauty of man is much more important than the superficial outer beauty, and we can preserve it forever until death.
But what about appearance?
Nevertheless, studies have shown that in an interview with an employer, those who are considered attractive by the interviewers are more likely to get a job. The same studies have revealed that schoolchildren more like attractive outside teachers and consider them smarter and more professional than others. It is known that young children respond positively to attractive faces. Even in the Bible, the most attractive virgins married rich kings. Well, is it possible to argue with this?
It turns out that if we want "political correctness", then we will repeat again and again that beauty is within us. But! The world is cruel, and if you want a harsh and naked truth, then it consists in the fact that modern society often perceives beauty as something purely external, like the correctness of features and the respectable appearance.
So let's be realistic
Billions and billions of dollars each year are spent on funds designed to improve our appearance. Much more than books, theaters and museums, for example. It turns out that the "beauty" of the real world is outside, not inside.
It's hard to be honest and say "yes", the beauty of the outside plays a huge role, because it is not available to everyone. Not everyone has been blessed with favorable genetics, but this is life, and we all have to play by its rules. Yes, external beauty is a great gift, but the main thing is how a person decides to use his physical attributes, whether he can, with the help of the nature given by him, become successful in life or not.
There will also be those who say that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder." It sounds good. But we all know that to be attractive to others is a matter largely to us, women. In women, self-esteem is completely tied to their appearance and attractiveness. Unfortunately, we judge more strictly about attractiveness than men. It's unfair, but it's just the way it is.
So, beauty is a single harmonious whole that delivers moral and aesthetic pleasure. The inner beauty of a person is visible from the outside and makes him externally beautiful. Yet the main thing is the harmony of the soul and body, so that the inner beauty of a person is combined with the external.
What do you choose inner or outer beauty?
My best regards, Eugenia