Hi. An ordinary woman is writing to you — not a fairy in a dress made of clouds, not a princess on the pea 👸. Alive. The one who can laugh 😂, argue 🤨, dream 🌙. And... wait. Yes, wait for your message 📩. Yours, because you are not just a man from the feed. You were interesting. Or became important. Or at least hooked. And now — you are silent 🤐.
So this is what we feel when you disappear:

1. 😕 At first — we are simply surprised.
You were active, wrote, flirted, joked. And then — silence... At first, we don't bother. Maybe it's work 💼. Maybe it's football ⚽. Maybe he's just busy. We're adults. But if a day or two or three passes, another mode turns on ⚠️.

2. 🤔 Then — an anxious question appears: "Was it all for real?"
Maybe you were playing? 🎲 Maybe we made up too much? You wrote "You're cool" 🥰, and I felt desired. And now — empty. I reread the messages like a fan 😅, and think: maybe I imagined it?

3. 🧠 Then — the struggle with myself begins.
Should I write first? 🤷‍♀️ But won't I look stupid? What if you just changed your mind, and I'm here — with my feelings, like on display? We women often like to remain proudly silent until everything inside has already twisted into a knot 💔.

4. 🎭 And also — your imagination turns on.
Are you with someone else? 💃 Did you go to the Himalayas? 🏔 Or just lost interest? Men often say: "Well, I was just busy." Okay. But you're on your phone 📱. You could put one damn period: "Hi, I disappeared because ___." We would understand. But you remain silent. And the whole explanation falls on our shoulders 🧳.

5. ❄️ In the end — we either let go or close off.
Someone blocks 🚫. Someone writes an angry message 💣. Someone just deletes the chat 🧹 and no longer believes in "he's sincere." And you, perhaps, just weren't ready. Or got scared. Or just didn't know how to say that "it didn't work" 🤷‍♂️.

💡 And here's an honest question for you, man:
WHY ARE YOU SILENT WHEN YOU CAN SAY IT DIRECTLY? I don't like it. I'm not ready. I can't stand it. Anything - just don't disappear like a ghost 👻. We don't bite 🐾. We respect honesty.
Write ✍️, even if it's "sorry, not my thing." We'll survive. But just being silent is like turning off the music mid-sentence 🎵❌.
You're an adult, right? 😉Then don't be afraid to speak up. Even if the truth stings - it's still better than emptiness 🌫.

Do you want to feel how it is for us? Imagine: you turned on a TV series 📺, got carried away, and at the most interesting part... the screen went black. No explanation. No credits. No ending 🕳.
This is how your silence feels.
Nastya💋