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πŸ”₯ how we test limits β€” even if we don't want it
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A confession from a very feminine woman who watches you closely πŸ‘€
Men, let's be honest.
Have you ever caught yourself thinking: "Why is she acting like this? Why is she testing my nerves, although everything seemed fine?" πŸ€”
Now, pay attention. It's not because we are "psyched." Not because we are "having such a day" πŸ™„. And not because we love drama (okay, sometimes we do πŸ˜…).
It's because we unconsciously test limits. Even if we don't set such a goal for ourselves πŸ§ πŸ’«

❓ WHY?
Because a woman is like a cat 🐈. She is interested not only in a soft sofa πŸ›‹οΈ, but also in the durability of the furniture πŸͺ‘. Not only in who you are, but also in what you are capable of πŸ’ͺ. Where you say "stop". Where you remain silent. Where you surprise 😏.

πŸ’‘ EXAMPLES? PLEASE:
* I will ask: "Do you miss your ex?" 😈 - not for a jealous scene, but to understand how honest you are.
* I will say: "It seems to me that you have started writing to me less ..." πŸ˜• - not to reproach you, but to see: will you justify yourself, remain silent or do it beautifully πŸ’¬πŸ’
* And sometimes I will just move away. Be silent. Disappear ... 🧊 - to see: will you follow me. Or will you say "oh well" ❄️πŸ”₯

🧭 WHAT DOES THIS MEAN FOR YOU?
This is not a game. This is not manipulation 🚫🎭This is our way of feeling that there is not just a nice guy next to us, but a man with character πŸ’₯
Someone who can be my support when I don’t know where my boundaries are πŸŒͺοΈπŸ›‘οΈ

😳 AND YES, SOMETIMES WE ARE SURPRISED OURSELVES:
"Why did I say that? I didn’t want to hurt him…" 🀷‍♀️And then… we remember that you held out. Smiled. Or came up, took us by the waist 🀭, looked us in the eyes πŸ‘οΈ and said: "Enough nonsense. Come to me. Or I'll come to you." 😎πŸ”₯
And that's it. The boundaries are checked. You are accepted. πŸ’―πŸ’˜

Do you want more such revelations? πŸ˜‡Ask. We, women, love when we are listened to πŸ‘‚But most of all - when we are felt πŸ’“And you are exactly like that, right?.. πŸ˜‰
MariaπŸ˜‰

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