Laughter discharges the situation

When emotions at the limit, resentment accumulates, and conversations turn into mini-drama, humor can work as a voltage switch. One successful comment - and the intensity of passions is replaced by laughter. Of course, it is important to feel the moment: the joke should be kind, not knuckle and not humiliating.

Light irony or self -irony helps to look at the conflict from the side, to see its scale - and most often understand that it is not at all worth the spent nerves. Laughter helps to return the balance, where there were only mutual reproaches a minute ago.

Humor brings together

Each pair over time has its own jokes, phrases, funny memories. This is like a personal code - understandable only to two. Such moments create the feeling of “we”, strengthen the sense of community. Laughter becomes part of intimacy: not only physical, but also mental.

General humor is a sign that people are on the same wave. And if this wave is stable and alive - the relationship holds stronger, even when everything around changes.

Boredom is receding

Over time, even a routine may appear in the most harmonious relations. The usual routes, the same topics, repeating evenings. And here humor - like refreshing rain on a hot day. It does not require much effort: it is enough to afford not to perceive everything too seriously.

A joint viewing of a comedy, a game of words, a draw or fun observation of others - all this not only entertains, but also gives a feeling of lightness that is so lacking in everyday life. A couple that can laugh together is much easier to pass through the “dry” periods in a relationship.

The main thing is a measure and respect

Humor is a powerful tool, but, like any other, requires delicacy. It is important not to turn it into a way to avoid serious conversations or mock your partner's feelings. The jokes should be combined, not to hurt. Especially if one of the partners in a vulnerable state.

Respect is the border for which humor should not go. Where it causes embarrassment, resentment or feeling of misunderstanding is no longer funny. But where he helps to survive a difficult day or turn a quarrel into laughter is a real magic.
Instead of conclusion

Love and laughter are an amazingly harmonious combination. They both require participation, sensitivity and desire to be near. Laughter will not solve all problems, but it can become the same thread that will be binded by two hearts again and again. Sometimes just laugh together to remind ourselves: we are still nearby.