What makes women happy?
Believe it or not, it tends to be the little things that make women
the most satisfied in relationships.
Time: Of all the things we talk about women wanting, time with their
spouse is it. The vast majority of women in happy relationships get 30
minutes of uninterrupted time with their husbands each day.
Twenty-four percent of women who claim to be in unhappy relationships
spend fewer than five minutes a day with their spouses.
Appreciation: Nowadays, women take care of the children and make
salaries, and they tend to be very underappreciated. Women should be
expressive of what makes them feel appreciated, saying “these are the
kinds of things I like … x, y and z.” Men should listen, and women
should tune in when their husbands are appreciative.
Understanding: It’s important for women to have men who understand
them. It’s also important for women to help men understand how to
listen. Men often don’t have a clue they’re being bad listeners.

Women have to sense a time limit to conversation. More often than not,
men are sitting there thinking, “When is this going to end?” I would
say 15 to 20 minutes, max. Women should say to their husbands, “It’s
8:00 p.m.; I need you to listen until 8:20 p.m.” Women may deserve 10
hours, but most men are not the best at listening to serious,
emotional conversations that go on.

Fun: This is one of those things that often goes out the window,
especially after the first child is born. All the factors like jobs,
rents, mortgages can add to relationship strain. Couples should set up
a date night – once every week, even if they are tired, during which
they spend a minimum of two hours alone. During this time, the couple
should talk about everything BUT work, money and children.

Kind Gestures: Hugs, kisses, unexpected telephone calls to say ‘I love
you.’ Simple things. I suggest five touch points a day for one week –
any kind gesture that takes 30 seconds or less. If a man can do this
for his partner for one week, both will be amazed at how much better
they feel in the relationship.
I think that if you will do these points then you will make any woman
happy and will be able to win a heart of your beloved lady easily.
Diana