A simple question, right? Almost like "what is the meaning of life"!
Everyone guesses, but they can't formulate an answer.

Men say they want simplicity.

They want understanding, but at the same time they don't know what they feel. They want freedom, but for you to call. They want silence, but for you to talk. They want privacy, but for you to be there!
Psychologists say that men are visual. Good! The girl put on a beautiful dress, eyelashes, a smile and showed... that she is ready to go to dinner with him. Works perfectly? NO. In 5 minutes: "Where are you going?" - and off we go... We get offended, and they don't understand the reason!
But seriously? Men want the same things as we do: to be needed, to be understood, and to be with someone who won't judge them for being just people and having the right to make mistakes.
And yes, sometimes they can guess. But keep in mind, it still doesn't work with everyone! lol
Men claim that they want simple women. But as soon as you become simple, they suddenly get bored. Complex, they get tired. Cheerful - "not serious", serious - "are you mad?"
In fact, men want themselves. Calm, strong, confident. And a woman next to whom they can sometimes be... not like that. Funny. Vulnerable. A little lost.
They want to be inspired by their women. So that the only one, understands his mood with a half-glance and can be next to him, silently loving!
That's how it is.
And we will all be happy. Or at least a date! lol