Men, let's talk frankly. Being close to a child is not only joy and laughter, but also a huge responsibility. Sometimes children are silent, do not say what they need or what worries them. But this does not mean that they do not expect something very important from us. This is what a child dreams about and what he really needs — even if he does not say it directly❤️
1. Feel safe 🛡️ A child should know that there is an adult nearby on whom he can rely. This is not only about a roof over his head or food. It is about the feeling that you will not be abandoned, betrayed or left alone in a difficult situation. Sometimes it is enough to just be there, listen and not rush with advice. 2. Feel heard 👂Even if the child is silent or keeps quiet, he still expects that his opinion is important. Men often rush to “solve the problem,” forgetting to just listen. Try to just listen sometimes without trying to fix something right away. This is very valuable.
3. Feel unconditional love 💙The child should know that he is loved simply for who he is. Not for grades at school, not for victories on the playground, not for good deeds. Just for the fact that he is he. Even when he makes mistakes and falls.
4. Feel support in your hobbies 🎨⚽Even if the child’s hobby seems strange or incomprehensible, support him. This is his world, his energy, his search for himself. Your interest and support are fuel for confidence.
5. Feel respect 🙌Children learn to be men or women by watching adults. Respect for a child is the foundation on which their self-esteem is built. Do not interrupt, do not humiliate, do not ignore. Even when you are tired or irritated.

Men, your children are not just little copies of you. They are individuals who need your attention, love and understanding. And often they simply do not have enough words to say it. Be there, listen and be a real example.
After all, the most important thing you can give is not things, but your time and heart. ❤️

Maria☺️