Hello to you, dad. Yes, yes, to you - who are reading this in between work shifts, who live in another city or even country. Who hears children's laughter in their headphones, and not in the next room. You may think that since you are not there, it means you are losing touch. But I want to say: you are important. Even at a distance.
We, women, often see this from the outside. We see how attentively you look at the screen when the baby shows his drawing via video link 🎨📱. How you memorize your favorite cartoons in order to speak with your child "in the same language" 📺. How you try to find words of support when even your own heart requires consolation 💙.
You can't always hug. But you can teach. Guide. It's amazing how much influence dad's voice has, even if it's coming from the phone.
💬 One of my friends said: "My son knows that I will always answer. Always. And this is his support." This is strength. Not in always being there physically. But in being a support at any distance.
You are needed. Even if you can't pick up from school, fix a broken bike or come to a matinee. But you can teach how not to give up, how to keep your word and be a man.
👔 You are an example. 🛠 You are an inspiration. 📞 You are the voice of confidence on the other end of the line.
And most importantly, children feel it, even if they can't express it in words yet.
So don't think that distance makes you less needed. It is not. Your love and attention grow through the kilometers. You are a dad. And you are important. Always. 💙👨‍👧‍👦
Tanya❤️