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I still believe in love. even if it sounds naive
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Romance is not an endangered species
We often hear: “love is chemistry”, “it is a habit”, “it is a mutually beneficial contract”. All this can be part of a relationship. But love is not only about calculation or biology. It is about care, vulnerability, a daily choice to be there.

Love is not a flash, it is a process.
It is when you do not leave in moments of misunderstanding. When you can not only admire, but also listen.
When you don't strive for the ideal, but learn to be with a real person - with fears, weaknesses, your wounds.

Why is it difficult for a modern person to believe in love?
There are many reasons:

An excess of choices. The digital age has created the illusion of endless possibilities. And at the same time - the fear of missing the "best" option.

Past traumas. Those who have experienced betrayal, treachery, emotional coldness, do not always dare to believe again.

The culture of temporariness. We are accustomed to quick pleasure. Patience, work on relationships, stability are not in fashion.

But love has never disappeared. It has simply changed form. Today, it is more often expressed not in romantic gestures, but in a willingness to listen. Not in promises, but in actions.

Love requires maturity
Loving is not about dependence. It is about mature intimacy.
About the willingness not only to take, but also to give.
About the ability to be there, even when it’s not perfect.
About not playing the role of the “perfect partner,” but being yourself.

True love is born not from the fear of loneliness, but from the desire to go through life together — in good times and in difficult times. That’s why internal readiness for a relationship is so important. After all, love is not only feelings, but also actions.

And yet — why is it important to believe?
Because without faith, a meeting is impossible.
Because faith is the space where trust is born.
Because it is faith that makes us able to recognize love, even if it looks modest — like a morning message “How are you?” or a warm hand next to you on a difficult day.

Yes, it may sound naive to believe in love in the 21st century. But it is much more naive to live believing that it doesn’t exist. Refusing love does not make us stronger. It makes us more cautious. Sometimes — colder. But not happier.

Love is not guaranteed. But it is possible
Love is a risk. There are no guarantees.
But, like good gastronomy or wine, it is in the risk that taste is born.
Don't be afraid that the relationship may not work out. You should be afraid of living your life without truly opening up to any person.

It is faith in love that makes us alive.
It requires courage. But it also gives strength.
And if you still hope to meet "the one" or "the one", let your faith not be a weakness - let it be a foundation.

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