How do you think, can love be similar to mechanism?
As to me, the relationship between a man and a woman is not just some mechanism, it is a COMPLEX mechanism, which can exist only in the case of loving hearts. Ideal are those unions in which this mechanism works properly. But if something goes wrong, it can lead to failure. To avoid this, you need to understand how this mechanism works. People have always wanted to know what is most important in the relationship of a man and a woman, but no one thought about how individual it is.
Take for example a couple whose priority is on moral qualities. The main thing for them is trust in each other. That's why even a little flirting on the side can destroy these relationships, and mutual assistance will only strengthen the relationship. If the pair has a priority on comfort, it becomes clear that the main thing for them is comfort.
In my life was an example of such relationships.
And, believe, such relations can be destroyed by an elementary violation of personal space or by endless quibbles. And this is already developing into more serious quarrels because of which these couples also part. At one point, the comfort that was the main thing in the relationship becomes intolerable for them, and the partners go on seeking sincere feelings that they did not consider important in the construction of this mechanism.
Have you thought about this somewhen?

Katia.