1. Father as the first male reference point
A boy observes his father's behavior from childhood - how he talks, solves problems, treats people, his mother, himself. In adolescence, this observation becomes especially acute.

Without a clear role model, it is difficult for a boy to navigate the storm of emotions and pressure from society. He may start looking for examples on the Internet, among friends or idols - and these are not always healthy reference points.

2. Support, not control
It is very important that a father not only makes demands, but also knows how to listen. Teenagers often distance themselves from their parents — and if mom often remains emotionally involved, then dads sometimes go "into the shadows", especially if the son becomes withdrawn. This is a mistake.

A father's example is shown not only in words, but also in actions:

to be there, even when not everything is smooth,

to support, and not to ridicule,

to respect the son's feelings, even if they seem "stupid".

This is how trust is formed. And if it exists, the boy will go for advice to his father, and not to dubious authorities.

3. Fatherly love is strength, not weakness
There is a myth that a man should be cold and reserved. But it is important for a teenager to know that being a man means being able to love, care, talk about feelings. And it is the father who can teach this, simply by showing it by his example.

If dad knows how to hug, say "I love you", "I'm proud of you", this becomes a powerful source of confidence for the teenager. Such a boy will not seek recognition in dangerous behavior, aggression or ostentatious "toughness".

4. If the father is not around
Life is different. Sometimes the father is absent - physically or emotionally. In such cases, it is very important that another adult man is next to the boy, ready to take on at least part of this role - a grandfather, uncle, coach, mentor. Any healthy, honest and stable male figure can help the boy feel that he is not alone.

Boys do not need ideal fathers, but real fathers. Ready to make mistakes, ask for forgiveness, learn together with their children and be honest with them. A dad is not just a parent. He is an example of what kind of man you can be in this difficult world.

If you are the father of a teenager, remember: your attention, your words, your sincerity and participation are the foundation on which your son will build his adult life.