I'll say it right away: women are afraid of blind dates. Not because they're afraid of men — no. We're afraid of uncertainty. Our thoughts spin like a carousel 🎠: what if he's weird? What if he's not the one? What if it's a trap? And yes, unfortunately, we live in a world where we were taught to be wary, filter, analyze💋
But here's what's interesting: fear is not a death sentence. Everything depends on the context. On how a man invites. On intonation. On what he says and why. And, of course, on whether a woman wants to take a risk for the sake of emotions. And believe me, we're sometimes ready to let go if that spark clicks inside✨.
And what about men? You, as a rule, more easily agree to a "blind" date. You even find it interesting: an unexpected turn, a new experience, a sporting excitement - "what if I get lucky?" You are more often looking for the feeling of hunting 🏹 than a guarantee of stability. This is normal. This is your nature. But! There is a nuance: you are also afraid of disappointment. You just hide it deeper.
So is it worth going on a blind date?
Yes, if:
* you are bored with correspondence without a real step;
* you want an emotional surge ⚡ (and a blind date is like a parachute jump, only without the height);
* you are ready not to demand, but to open up to the process - with interest, and not with inflated expectations.
No, if:
* you want to immediately get an ideal match on all parameters;
* you are afraid of the slightest discrepancy (appearance, manners, voice);
* you do not know how to communicate "live" without a script. A blind date is about trusting the world, about excitement and a little bit of madness 🤪. And you know what's the most beautiful thing? Often, it is these meetings that turn out to be fateful. Because there is less control in them - and more life.
So, if a stranger suddenly writes to you with an offer to "meet without photos"... Do not rush to delete. Perhaps she is not a coincidence. Perhaps she is your story. 💫
Nastya❤️🌹