There is no pressure, no unnecessary expectations, you don’t feel obligated to explain or adjust. You can just be yourself - no more, no less. At such moments, you understand that loneliness is not a sentence, but even a kind of freedom.

You know, sometimes I even think: “If only the whole world were like me now - calm, measured, without unnecessary stress and drama - wouldn’t it be a dream?” You can get up when you want, do what you like, not make excuses and not rush with anyone. And that’s great.

But... here the words from the Holy Scripture always pop up in my head, which seem to contradict this calmness a little. Especially if you look at family and love.

The Book of Genesis says: “It is not good for the man to be alone; “Let us make him a helper comparable to him” (Genesis 2:18). Here it is, a divine recognition that man was created not for isolation, but for relationships. We were created not just to live next to each other, but to love and support each other.

Even in the New Testament, in the letters of the Apostle Paul, much is said about love as the foundation of relationships: “Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy, does not boast, is not puffed up” (1 Corinthians 13:4). And this love is not only about romance, it is about the deep connection that God wants to see between people. Family, marriage, partnership are not just institutions, but a path to mutual holiness and support.

Interestingly, in the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus says: “So then they are no longer two, but one flesh; what God has joined together, let not man separate” (Matthew 19:6). This is a serious reminder of the value and sanctity of unity. We are not created simply to exist next to each other, but to become one whole, complementing and supporting each other.

This is where the internal conflict arises. On the one hand, loneliness is security, peace and freedom. On the other hand, the heart is created for love and passion, to share your life with another, to be a family. And believe me, these are not empty words. I myself have thought a lot about this topic, sometimes even envied those who have found their partner and can share joy and difficulties together.

And, yes, of course, every person needs passion. But until it comes, you can enjoy your inner peace and be grateful for this opportunity. In the end, the ability to be comfortable alone is a gift that prepares us for true, deep love.

Do you think that maybe someone is really destined to be alone?

Lana Banana