Love as a mirror, not as a shadow
Many women intuitively seek love that reflects their inner world - passion, strength, audacity, dreams. And not just a shadow that obediently follows them, adoring every move.
The paradox is that exceptional devotion, which requires no effort, often loses its attraction. As if love obtained without a fight loses its shine. Like a diamond that just lies on the floor - you don't believe in its authenticity if you haven't found it in the mine after work. The one who loves “too much”
Sometimes a man who literally worships a woman loses in her eyes… a mystery. A secret. A sharpness.
Love becomes like an offering — endless, sweet, sticky. And the woman begins to suffocate. Because to love is not only to accept, but also to give, to fight, to be an equal. And not a queen on a pedestal, to whom they meekly appeal. A woman loves “in a different way”A woman’s love is often born in admiration, in respect, in the feeling that this man is a little stronger, a little higher, a little freer than she is. He leads, he is confident, he does not dissolve — and this evokes a response. And if he is too submissive — maybe it is safe, but it does not excite. So is all lost?
Of course not. All this is not a sentence, but an observation. It happens that a woman and a man find that fragile line where admiration, reciprocity and passion live side by side.
It happens that devotion does not kill the intrigue, but on the contrary, makes it deeper.
It happens that a man who loves does not do it "as a sacrifice", but with dignity and strength. And then a woman suddenly begins to look at him differently. Love is a capricious thing. And sometimes it seems that it chooses not by logic, but by poetry. But in every mockery of fate there is room for conscious choice.
Maybe you should not be afraid to love the one who loves you?.. Or maybe you should be the one who is not boring, not scary and not too easy to love.