Warm cup of tea instead of loud words

He silently gave you a blanket when you froze. She did not wake you up in the morning, seeing you are tired. Such little things seem insignificant, but it is in them that real concern lives. These are signals: “I see you”, “I don't care”, “I am nearby.” And the more such signs in everyday life, the stronger the foundation of the relationship becomes.

Silence that speaks more than words

Sometimes it is more important not what we say, but how we can keep silent. Listen calmly, not to kill, not to prick - this is also an act. The ability not to say sharpness at the time of irritation can change the course of the quarrel. Silence can be destructive, or can be careful. It all depends on the intonation, the gaze, what is behind this silence.

Random forgetfulness and resentment that remain

We do not always notice what we miss. They did not answer an important message, forgot about the anniversary, did not say “thank you”. The partner can remain silent, but the precipitate remains. One little injection is not scary. But if there are too many of them, the relationship begins to exhale. Because love is fading without attention, like fire without air.

Acts are a choice

Love is not only a feeling, it is a daily choice. Ask how the day went. Put the phone to just sit next to it. Do not keep silent when you see that a person is bad. Be kind in detail. These tiny solutions form the atmosphere of relations - one in which you want to stay.

Big events rarely happen. But the little things are every day. It is they who become threads, from which long and real relationships are trapping. Do not underestimate the power of a simple “I am with you”, a look, smiles or a cup of coffee. Because love does not always need to do great actions. Sometimes it’s enough just to remember that the other person is nearby - and he is important.